10 Tips for New Managers
So you just got promoted into your first management job, and you don’t have the slightest idea what to do. You’re not sure if you should “be bold” and do big, innovative things. You’re not sure if you should “listen well” and keep your head down until you get better oriented. Interestingly enough, the answer is “both”. I’m in the process of writing a book designed to help brand new managers survive their first foray into the crazy and sometimes baffling world of management. In that book, I deep dive into some very interesting, sometimes funny, and frequently irreverent subjects. I need another half-dozen long, international flights to finish it, but I figured I’d share one of my “Top 10” lists with you.
What follows are the top 10 things you should do in your first 90 days as a manager … along with a “glimpse” of the editorial on this subject that I’ve targeted for my book:
Tip #1: Fire someone worthless – Hire someone impressive: Nothing gets everyone’s attention and establishes your leadership quite like the combination of (a) figuring out who desperately needs to go do something different, and (b) bringing someone on board that’s clearly stronger than the average person on the team. It’s a way to fix what’s broken, and bulk up your team … all in one coordinated motion. I know it sounds a little heartless, but trust me, I’ve never taken over a team where there wasn’t at least one person that literally “everyone” knew should be working somewhere else.
Tip #2: Work harder AND smarter: To this day, my biggest single fear is that a group of my employees would be sitting around at a bar having a beer, and talking about how they work “so much harder than Rusty”. That prospect terrifies me. I don’t have the genetic or educational advantage of working “smarter” and staying ahead via superior intelligence … so I make up for it by working harder. When your team sees you bustin’ your butt for them, they’ll feel like they need to keep up, and the whole team runs fasters as a result. If you think that managing means you’ve got an easier job … think again. If you're not working harder than all of your employees, then you're doing it "wrong".
Tip #3: Make your boss’s list your list: I recommend that you sit down with your boss, figure out what is on his priority list, take the time to understand it, and then adopt it as your own. Working in a direction that isn’t aligned with your boss is a little like kissing a hog … it makes you look silly and it only annoys the hog.
Tip #4: Pee on the bushes, but don’t drown them: It’s important to establish yourself as the leader, and make sure that you “mark your turf”. The mistake a lot of new managers make is that they “over-mark their turf”, and try to over-manage their teams. Being a good leader is a little like being a good rifle marksman. Your job is to make sure the rifle is loaded, aimed correctly, and that the trigger is pulled. Once the round leaves the barrel, you need to be OK with allowing it to take it’s own path to the target. Sometimes if forces like wind and rain impede the course, you have to reload and try again. That’s OK … and allowing your team to make mistakes is part of their growth.
Tip #5: “Fewer and Bigger” is better than “Many and Small”: Find a small number of very high-impact business projects, and then make them happen. A lot of managers make the mistake of trying to get ahead by doing way too many little things well, instead of finding some “headlines” that matter to the company. I’m not saying you should ignore all the small things that need to get done. I’m saying that if all you do is small things, you’ll be considered a small manager.
Tip #6: Remember the Parable of the Little Bird: A small bird got a late start south. He was flying over a Kansas field during a blizzard, and he iced up and dropped from the sky. He thought “My life is over, I’m going to freeze, alone, in this snow pile. Nothing could be worse.” Then a cow walked by and … well … (it’s a G-Rated Blog) … so you know what happened. Yup, right on top of the little bird. He mused “I thought it couldn’t get worse, but now I’m going to freeze covered with this … (stuff).” But then he started getting warmer from his ‘surroundings’, the feeling returned to his wings, and he figured out that if he could only get out from under this pile, he might be able to fly to safety. He yelled “HELP – HELP”. After a few minutes of yelling for help, he heard a scratching sound, and he saw a pin-hole of light. “HELP HELP I’M DOWN HERE !!!” he yelled to his rescuer. Then the hole opened, and a coyote reached, grabbed him and ate him. The moral of the story is … “Not everyone that dumps on you is your enemy, and not everyone that offers to help you is your friend.”
Tip #7: Embrace Incrementalism: There was a time in my life when I thought Incrementalism was the surest form of mediocrity. I was wrong. Figure out what big things you want to do, break them into digestible chunks, and when you hit a milestone … throw a party and publicize it. This business is a marathon, not a sprint, and you need to recharge your team regularly with a victory party. If all you do is whip the mules, at some point, they’ll figure out how to whip you back.
Tip #8: Make friends with people that matter: This business rock is too big and heavy to push up the hill … with people like HR, Finance, Facilities, and everyone else that might regularly annoy you sitting on top of the rock. Figure out how to work “with” them instead of “against” them. I’ll never forget what a wonderful guy I used to work for told me a few years back when I was yelling about how I just “knew” I was right and that knucklehead from HR was wrong. He said “Do you want to be right, or do you want to be successful?” I’ve never forgotten that question. My team hears it often when they’re going through a “Knucklehead Drill”.
Tip #9: Nothing gets you ahead quite like getting anyone but you ahead: This is the one where you probably decide you’ll never buy my book. It’s really counter-intuitive, but abidingly true. Calling attention to yourself and your accomplishments is the “worst” way to forward your career. Give credit for literally everything … to someone else … even if you did everything yourself. As a matter of fact, if you really want to annoy someone you don’t like, find a situation where they significantly impeded your progress, but you persevered and accomplished your goal in spite of them. Then make sure they’re publicly praised for the wonderful help and collaboration they provided in support of the project’s success. Trust me, it’s fun. Ignoring them only encourages them to do it again. Praising them and acknowledging their support makes them feel obligated to do a better job next time.
Tip #10: Learn your employee’s career aspirations, and help them get there: This is the only overlap from my “Unrecruitable Employee” questions, and it’s the most important thing you can do to breed loyalty, manufacture hard work, and keep your people focused on their job.
So those are my “Top 10 Tips” for young managers to embrace in their first 90 days. It’s a serious list, designed for managers that want to have an impact and drive their businesses to a new level.
My next “Top 10” list won’t be quite so serious. But I’ll save that for another week or two.

Well, since I was traveling that day in a sweatshirt, cut-off jeans, and sandals, and with about 500 people the following day in an audience expecting me in a suit and tie, I made darn sure that this nice lady knew that I was in a very tough situation. You see, I’m not one of those sizes that allows me to simply walk into the local department store and buy a suit off the rack.
I’ve learned several compelling and helpful things from these hour-long Star Trek “leadership lessons”, including but certainly not limited to:
Personal sacrifice starts at the top
There are many more examples, and I occasionally enjoy re-reading the book “Make it so.

I have now had 16 years of service in the civilian technology industry since leaving the Corps in 1992, but no lesson since then has ever been as important as the lessons I learned before.
Where am I going with this?
The first lesson I learned from coaching Under-9 Girl’s Soccer was the difference between “Influence” and “Control”.
The third lesson I learned from my one and only coaching experience played out as I watched the early part of the season from the “Parents’ Side” of the field.


